Getting Over a Break-Up

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It is always hard and unpleasant experience when you break up with your partner when you end a long relationship when you realize that you can no longer have the same relationship with someone who you once loved, or still love… But you have to do what’s needed to be done, including ending your relationship. The problem is that it is one difficulty to end a relationship and it is another hard thing to continue life without much nostalgy and bad feelings… But you have to adapt, you have to learn how to handle break-ups, you need to learn how to get over it, so here is some helpful advice after a break up that will help you to overcome it easier.

Realize the fact that it’s over and accept it

Don’t live in illusions &lies, don’t force yourself to ignore the real world & real facts. Maybe a break up is very painful & hard but you need to accept it and stop worrying, you need to confront your fear, pain & bad feelings.

After you have realized it after you accepted it, you will feel better and you will feel that you are ready for the next step.

Get over it, forget break up

After you have succeeded in accepting the fact that your relationship is over, it is time to stop thinking about it, stop thinking about your ex-partner, stop thinking about your memories with him or her and completely ignore, forget everything for some time.

Don’t keep looking at him or her photos, stop any kinds of communication with your ex-partner including texting or calling, don’t think about your memories together, don’t think about or look at things that remember you your ex-partner. For some time, pretend like he/she never existed and you never had any kind of relationship with him/her.

All this will keep you out of bad feelings, will keep you far from worries and will not get you in depression or stress.
After you have managed to free your mind from thoughts about your ex-partner, after you have freed your mind for more important things, things that make you happy, it is time to move to next step.

Don’t let a break up ruin your day, keep it up

Instead of thinking about the past and crying for what has been already gone & done, it is time for new life, new challenges and a new day!

Get yourself a busy, interesting and useful daily routing, spend your time, effort and energy for the things that make you better, that makes you feel better, that makes you feel happy. The world is full of opportunities, be sure to use them!

Go on a picnic with friends, plan an interesting trip, travel to other countries & cities, get a new hobby, explore extreme but safe sports, start working out, participate in a marathon, go on events, join meetings & discussions… There are really a lot of interesting things you can do, things that will give you a lot of new memories & interesting experiences, things that will make & keep you happy, so use your break up to finally turn your boring life into an interesting life!

After you have changed your routine and your lifestyle, after you have improved it, if you still not feel good enough, it is time to move to the next step…

Look at it from a different side

If you still feel bad about your break up, you just need to look at things from another side… Now you are completely free, no more duties from your ex-partner, now you have more freedom & more time for yourself.

Don’t idolize your ex-partner, everyone has a lot of disadvantages and minuses, use that to combat your bad feelings! Think about the bad sides of your ex-relationship, think about the bad sides of your ex-partner, think about bad memories & experiences together you would not have gone through if you were not engaged with him or her.

All this will help you to realize good things about your break up, it will help you to feel less bad about it and actually feel good that you are finally 100% free & limitless.

Enough of reading it already, now it is time to actually do what is recommended above, now it is time to follow all advice after a break up so you will feel better and it will not be able to keep you down.…

Finding An Online Lover

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Finding An Online Lover

It is interesting to see how the world has changed, how everything we do is changed and influenced by the almighty internet, how much we can do online… Do you want to have some fun? There are tons of websites & apps where you can watch your favorite movies, TV shows, serials, cartoons, play games… Do you want to eat something? There are also a lot of websites and apps that let you order any food online and get it delivered to your house within minutes… Do you want to find a love? No problem, no need to fight a huge, fire throwing dragon to find a princess. There are thousands of online dating apps and websites that lets you find a suitable lover without even leaving your house.

Who would have imagined a few centuries ago that there would come a day when we would be able to do everything from our home, sitting on a chair, just moving a finger and everything is done! The internet has changed the world, forever, and it has changed the way we can find our love partners for life…

The change is fact, the advantages and disadvantages come with it are a lot…

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The good things about finding your love online

First of all,

probably everyone will agree, the best thing about finding a love online is that you can find a lot of potential partners from all around the world, from all countries, cities, places & territories. 

You can find all kinds of people, you are not limited in people who are available in your local area and places where you are usually handing out.

You can make more wise decisions as there are really many options and you are free to choose your partner the way you like.

 

Also,

when looking for a love partner on online dating sites or apps, you can be sure that people you see there are not in a relationship, they are completely free and open for a relationship, they are looking for a love too. person.

That way, you can be 100% confident and you will not have to experience the disappointment that someone you liked for a long time is already in a relationship with another

Another

advantage of searching for love online is that you feel much less shy to communicate with your potential love partners than you would feel if you had to do it on person.
Many people feel shy to talk to strangers, get to know them well, share their feelings & thoughts with them and express their selves freely while they are in front of a person they like. Well, while you are online, all that is taken away, you can be more confident, talk more freely, be less shy and better express your thoughts and feelings. This way, you can find your partner with fewer trouble &worries, you can be more open & real, no barriers.

Dating online & texting

is also a better way for communication than talking directly to people, especially people who you like a lot. While you are having a direct talk with someone, you have less time to think about what you are saying, while chatting & texting is easier and you have a more time to think what you are writing, better phrase your thoughts.

Lastly,

while you are using an internet dating service to find love, you can skip setting profile picture & talk to people without a picture too. This way, you can put away appearances and choose your partner with a pure heart & good personality, so good appearance will not blind you.

The bad things about finding your love online

Now about bad things, the first problem of finding your partner online is the lack of reality. Many people create fake profiles for different reasons and it is often hard to identify them. When you think that finally, you have found a good fit for yourself, it may appear that that’s just a fake profile instead of a real person.

Another problem with finding a love online is the lack of real expressions. Sure, you are more comfortable to express yourself, free from many barriers but you lack real expressions. Sure, smiles and emojis are here to feel the gap, but they still can’t replace real emotions and expressions.

Finally

After all the advantages & disadvantages, it should be clear that online dating is a great opportunity, thanks to modern times, but there is always a need for real meetings before you fall in love.

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